TMI Tuesday 7/17/2012
DARING: What are your 50 shades?
Today's TMI Tuesday is brought to you by the darling Serafina, - Servant of Michael, goddess incarnate, and First Lady of the House of Samadhi . . .
1. I enjoy the idea that my partner wants to inflict pain on me that:
a. makes me curious
b. is titillating and sexually arousing
c. that leaves me screaming and/or crying because that’s the way I like it
Serafina's answer - no doubt about it B. No doubt what feels good can change as well. And it depends on a variety of things within the moment. If I am in a dark mood, pain is absolutely not wanted, instead I need comforting and understanding. 2. Do you like being forced to dress or act in a way that is humiliating? If yes, please describe. If no, why not?
Serafina's answer - I resist humiliation because I lived that way for many years. My upbringing was extremely strict and I was shy, and we wore clothes that were different from my school-mates and were not allowed to participate in sports, dances or social events. We moved a lot and I only had friends when I was attending a school where many kids came from a similar background for a 2 year period. It is difficult to form friendships when you are always the "new" kidHowever, having said thus I realize that when it is a challenge that I find intriguing, I would embrace the event. And I am aware that what I call a challenge might very well be labeled as humiliation for others. I would also have to be in the right space to participate or Master would find me digging in; which on occasion I do that.
3. Do you like seeing bruises, scars, or marks that were caused during sex on either you or your partner? What kind of marks?
Serafina's answer - oh very short answer. No.4. Would you like to be forced to do sexual things that you don’t necessarily like to do? Yes or No.
Serafina's answer - All depends on what it is. . I do have limits5. Do you want to be forced to watch your lover with someone else? Yes, No or It depends.
Serafina's answer - While I would have no problem watching while Master flogs another or similar - watching Master making love to and fucking another would pretty much end it for me. I was formerly introduced to Master by his now ex-wife, her first statement to me was "he is much more of a sexual man than (she) could handle". She actually enjoyed watching Master take me and it got her off. I was not reluctant in that setting.I can guarantee. . .Master is not too much for me. . I want him always
6. What dirty (sometimes inappropriate) things do you like to say to your sexual partner?
Serafina's answer - I honor and respect Master I would not consider anything inappropriate. Being quite shy I even find it difficult to talk dirty. . .I am open to tips and ideas if anyone is willing to offer them.Bonus: Finish this statement: I like being powerful in bed because __________ .
Serafina's answer - I am submissive. My submission is my power.How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link to tmituesdayblog from your website!
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3. I don't like scars and marks either
ReplyDelete5. Interesting how you met your Master.
6. I used to be shy about talking dirty but with confidence, age, and sexual confidence I've learned to not restrain myself and enjoy the moment. My motto: Say what you feel, get what you need.
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-H
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