"Jack's Blowjob Lessons" - Book Review

fellatrice (plural fellatrices)

1. (rare) A woman who performs fellatio; a fellatrix.

 Serafina won't be blowing one of those silly noise makers at midnight tonight.

My darling Serafina is a fascinating woman.  She came to me after bearing and raising four children, but had experienced one man’s cock in her mouth on a single occasion, and never any anything anal.  She was a total neophyte in the world of BDSM and fetish pleasures.  Until 2011, she struggled giving pleasure orally, it was an odd remnant of her strict religious upbringing.  She confessed to me once that anal sex was easier for her, and seemed less taboo than sucking a man's cock.

As we conclude 2011, I can confide to you that my Serafina no longer struggles at all sucking my cock.  Rather, quite the opposite, she's given me the most passionate and intense blowjob I've ever experienced.  That's saying a lot, as I spent 15 years in a polyamorous relationship with Ms Torment who prided herself on being a world class fellatrice.

So here's a review of the book Serafina gives some credit for making her a world class cocksucker (my choice of words, not necessarily hers.)  About the time this post has been scheduled to appear (12:01 AM New Years Day) I plan to be enjoying her new skills.

Like I said, Serafina won't be blowing one of those silly noise makers at midnight!

Jack Hutson  wrote a guide book titled "Jack's Blowjob Lessons" together with an old friend, Tanya J.  His website can be found here.  he also has a blog, but it can be difficult to find here it is.


There is a healthy bit of information there for those who can't or don't want to purchase the book.  I understand Jack is the self publisher, and one can acquire the book in an electronic edition only.  I am not aware if there is a kindle version.  You are allowed to print your one copy.   However IMO the price of $49. is exorbitant.  Violet Blue’s book, The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio, is $17.


Jack Hutson's style of writing is pretty  much straight from the hip, he speaks today's generation's lingo.  I can easily see that his simplistic vocabulary and short short chapters would be the top choice for most who have busy lives and don't always have time to read a long extensive book.  It is full of grammatical errors, so I guess he doesn't incorporate a spell-checker.


One could pick any page anywhere, and get information.  No matter where you would begin reading, you quickly observe just how passionate Jack Hutson gets about attitude as he re-iterates every opportunity he gets.  I agree that attitude is everything. But Jack repeats his tune over and over. . . and. . .

Jack does not stop at advice for giving the best mind-bending orgasms, he reaches across the entire relationship as well and applies the attitudes there.  In fact, why be concerned about giving a great blowjob if the relationship does not mean that much?  Unless you earn a living giving blowjobs, Jack speaks to the average kinkster here.

But aside from being very egostisticle he makes one very grave error by stating . . . .  “swallowing (semen) — reduces the chances of getting STD’s  when giving head” Other bloggers have much more to say about Jack the ripoff:

Insane Hussein
A Bedroom Blog
Hey Euphoria 
Jack’s Blowjob Lesson: the scam and the take-down

The offer to review and study material on giving great, successful blowjobs came at a time when I very much was looking for it.  I had a few books on the topic, and The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio from Violet Blue.  This book, however gives the entire male point of view and what he has observed his own pleasure and exactly why and what makes that pleasure happen, and then he shares it for the rest of us. How lucky we are!
I can tell you that I would never do a blowjob in public toilets or other dirty places as he suggests. 

I am learning that starting while in the shower together is a very good method for me.  The number one issue of . . umm how clean is it? is resolved by a sensuous scrub.  The warm water is soothing and comforting. It helps me focus.


I would have just one more tip to share and that is for those like me who are still struggling with the texture and or taste of semen.  What I am learning is that the more of my tongue I engage, the less surface there is to get taste from.  By using my tongue this way actually gives him more pleasure, and the more pleasure he gets the less I think about my personal issues.

legally binding?

"She's dominant in her private life."
      -- Gloria Allred about Alisha Smith

Alisha Smith, an Assistant State's Attorney General for the State of New York, resigned from her position yesterday amid scandal and allegations that she was moonlighting as a paid professional dominatrix.

Smith made the announcement in a news conference, where she was joined by her attorney, Gloria Allred. Described by one source as simply a "high powered attorney" but by another as a "celebrity rabble-rousing lawyer", Allred appears to be a controversial figure in her own right.

Allegedly known as "Alisha Spark" in the BDSM scene, the Attorney General's office suspended Smith last month over allegations that she had used her fetish activities as a secondary source of income to her $78,000 a year position in the Attorney General's office.  It's established policy in New York Attorney General Eric Schneiderman's office that employees must seek permission to engage in activities earning more than $1,000.

Smith says that she was asked a number of intimate and personal questions about her sexual habits and proclivities while under investigation by her employer, and she feels mistreated by the suspension without pay.  At yesterday's news conference, Ms. Smith and her attorney appeared to be laying the groundwork for some kind of future legal action.

Here are a pair of quotes from that event so you can decide her future intentions for yourself:

"All their actions towards me have been extremely disturbing because I have never accepted any money or payment from any outside source for anything while I have been employed by the NY Attorney General's office," Alisha Smith said.

"Employers do not have the right to go on fishing expeditions into an employee private sexual activities and an employee should not have to sacrifice their privacy about their sex life in order to keep a job," Gloria Allred said.

I agree that employees deserve a measure of privacy, I'd even agree that they should be free from "fishing expeditions" into their private sexual activities.  I'll even go so far as to take Alisha Smith's words and statements all at face value.

Under the premise that we are innocent until proven guilty, and lacking any concrete evidence to the contrary, I think it's best to move forward with the assumption that Ms Smith did not accept any money in return for scenes as a dominatrix.

It's not difficult to imagine that Alisha and Jade Vixen conspired together in dominating paid clients.  Good submissives are hard to find, so it's not beyond belief that one Domme decided to share a submissive male with her friend. Assuming Ms Vixen alone received compensation, the submissive client still might leave with the impression that Ms Smith was part of the package, part of the service that had been purchased.

If that scenario is anywhere close to what actually occurred, a practicing attorney might satisfy themselves that they were within the law, having scrupulously avoided accepting any compensation.  What she likely failed to consider is that when working for an elected official, the appearance of impropriety is as bad as the actual act.

Is it "fair" that Alisha Smith lose her job because she has a passion for dominance?  Nope
Is it "fair" that Alisha Smith lose her job because she was a play partner to a pro domme? Nope
Is it "fair" that Alisha Smith lose her job because she choose to attend BDSM play parties?  Nope

The problem is when we put all of those questions together . . .

By playing at public BDSM parties Alisha Smith took her sexuality into a public arena, voluntarily losing at least some measure of privacy.  Twittering back and forth with a friend left behind a record of attending at least one of those events.  The fact that the friend is a sex professional further complicates the issue.

None of that is a terrible problem for you or me, but the rules are a bit different when working for a public official.  Let's be honest with each other here, ok?  There is a higher standard that applies when your salary is paid for by tax dollars.  The rules really are a bit different when working for somebody who's elected.

No matter how much we might wish to stand for sexual freedoms, there is no getting around the fact that going to BDSM play parties in the company of professional Dominatrix Jade Vixen while an employee of the Attorney General's office was an act of extremely poor judgement.

Alisha Smith should have realized the danger her extra-curricular activities would pose to a public figure. She should have recognized the dangerous position in which she had placed herself.  While the BDSM community as a whole is becoming more and more tolerant, that's not necessarily the trend among registered voters.

I'm not a fan of frivolous lawsuits, and I'm a strong believer in self discipline, in self responsibility.  I hope everyone here just walks away a bit wiser.

I think it's time to move on over to private practice Alisha, not because you have any reason to be ashamed of what you have done, but because you are worth more than $78K.  I'd think a beautiful, intelligent, not to mention powerful, woman such as yourself could do better simply allowing men to grovel at your feet, occasionally flicking a whip or unleashing an insult.

That is one Dom's view.